Ages: 6-12
Key Skills for Children
Aged 6-12 Years
Aged 6-12 Years
Between the ages of 6-12 years old, children further refine their communication and socialization skills, laying the foundation for more complex interactions and relationships. At this stage, they should demonstrate increased proficiency in verbal and non-verbal communication, as well as more sophisticated social interactions.
Verbal Communication:
Children should be able to express themselves clearly, using more complex vocabulary and grammar. They should also demonstrate good listening skills and be able to follow longer instructions.
Non-verbal Communication:
This includes understanding and using subtle non-verbal cues such as body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice to convey and interpret meaning in social interactions.
Social Interaction:
Children should engage in more cooperative play activities, understand social norms, and demonstrate empathy towards others. They should also develop friendships and navigate social hierarchies within peer groups.
Conflict Resolution:
Developing skills to resolve conflicts peacefully and negotiate with peers is important for healthy social development.
Peer Relationships:
Children should form and maintain positive relationships with peers, demonstrate empathy, share and take turns, and show consideration for others’ feelings and perspectives.
Emotional Regulation:
Emotional regulation continues to be an important aspect of development during the ages of 6-12 years old. Children should become more adept at identifying and managing their emotions in various situations, demonstrating increasing emotional maturity.
Emotional Awareness:
Children should be able to identify and label a wide range of emotions, both in themselves and others.
Emotional Expression:
They should learn appropriate ways to express their emotions, including both positive and negative feelings.
Coping Strategies:
Developing effective coping strategies to manage stress, frustration, and disappointment becomes more important as children face increasingly complex social and academic challenges.
Empathy and Perspective-Taking:
Understanding others’ perspectives and showing empathy towards their experiences and emotions is a key aspect of emotional regulation at this age.
Adaptive Living Skills:
As children grow older, they should continue to develop and refine adaptive living skills to become more independent and capable of functioning effectively in various environments.
Self-care:
Children should be able to independently manage their personal hygiene, grooming, and daily routines such as getting dressed, brushing their teeth, and maintaining cleanliness.
Time Management:
Developing basic time management skills such as organizing tasks, completing homework assignments, and following schedules become increasingly important.
Problem-Solving:
Children should demonstrate improved problem-solving skills, both independently and in collaboration with others, to overcome challenges and obstacles they encounter.
Responsibility:
Learning to take responsibility for one’s actions, belongings, and commitments is an important aspect of adaptive living skills at this age.
How Can Help
Alon Behavior Consulting specializes in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy, a highly effective intervention for addressing delays in communication and socialization skills, as well as other areas of development. Here’s how ABA therapy can support children aged 6-12 years old:
Targeted Skill Development:
ABA therapists conduct thorough assessments to identify specific areas of need and develop individualized treatment plans targeting communication, socialization, emotional regulation, and adaptive living skills.
Structured Learning Environment:
ABA therapy provides a structured learning environment where children can practice and generalize skills across different settings and situations.
Social Skills Training:
ABA therapists incorporate social skills training sessions that focus on teaching appropriate social behaviors, such as initiating and maintaining conversations, interpreting social cues, and resolving conflicts peacefully.
Emotional Regulation Techniques:
ABA therapy teaches children practical strategies for identifying and managing their emotions, including relaxation techniques, self-calming strategies, and problem-solving skills.
Positive Reinforcement:
ABA therapy utilizes positive reinforcement to motivate children and reinforce desired behaviors, encouraging them to continue practicing and mastering new skills.
Parental Involvement:
ABA therapists work closely with parents to provide guidance and support in implementing strategies at home to reinforce skills learned in therapy sessions and promote the generalization of skills to real-life situations.
Through the targeted interventions and support provided by ABA therapy, children with delays in communication, socialization, and adaptive living skills can make significant progress, gaining the necessary skills to thrive in social, academic, and everyday life contexts.